Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Crimean referendum, is it legal?

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Basically people of Crimea showed middle finger to Ukraine and separated from it. Today, the 16th of March, they voted and become an independent country. Now if Russia approves, they will become a state under Russian Federation.

West, in particular United States, has a problem with a referendum like that. They say all of Ukraine should have decided the fate of Crimean people, and that it is not up to Crimean people to decide their own fate. (it is like if Texas wanted to separate from United States, it wouldn't be enough for all Texans to vote for separation, all of United States had to vote as well, approving their decision).

So, what about Venice, Italy. It too is holding a referendum, and the people of Venice are voting, people of Italy have no say.

Notice I'm not even bringing up Kosovo.

WTF west? WTF United States? WTF did you smoke? :kick:




P.S. If your TV told you Ukraine is against Crimea separating, your TV lied to you. People in Ukraine prevented tanks from moving towards Crimea. Ukrainian army on territory of Crimea joined the populous. Ukrainian fleet fled to Sevastopol (capitol city of Crimea, and a large sea port). Ukrainians do not support western coup in Ukraine and Neo-Nazis that come to power. More of Ukraine will separate from itself, I think.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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According to Obama & Co., all of Russia would have to vote in favour of Chechnya's separation. At least that's the standard they seem to apply to Crimea. Of course, a different set of rules applies when a region supported by the U.S. decides to separate from a country that is not-so-friendly with the U.S. (the breakup of Yugoslavia an obvious example). "International law" is a funny thing.
 

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Lol let crimea join russia. When the rest of ukraine joins the EU and turns its economy around, crimeans can sit enjoying their russian human rights and booming economy.....

lol oh wait xD
 

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Jaylan said:
Lol let crimea join russia. When the rest of ukraine joins the EU and turns its economy around, crimeans can sit enjoying their russian human rights and booming economy.....

lol oh wait xD
Because joining the EU worked out great for Ukraine's neighbours, Bulgaria and Romania. lol oh wait...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bradd80 said:
well those two countries weren't exactly models of economic development before they joined the EU either :crackup:
And joining the EU did nothing to change that.
 
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