"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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i am not calling you gay, just a very gay sort of thing to be pondering.
What's gay about finding a rich woman to marry?sparky0000 said:LOTS of gay guys go that route. very hip thing in the gay community to become an escort of sorts for wealthy single women (not the sex kind of escort). eventually the pair falls in love (yes, many gay guys do marry women) and the rest is history.
i am not calling you gay, just a very gay sort of thing to be pondering.
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the reverse goes for normal girls. they want an older guy who kicks a$$. money, power, and respect. that is what they normally want. once again, this seems to have left america. most girls don't even need a guy these days in the usa.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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hmmmmmThe__Substitute said:Intersting theory about being gay.... makes sense in a way..... could also be some messed up mother issues...... or just someone that wants an easy life and is willing to marry for a free ride through life and will most likely be a cheater.........would be hard to turn down a sugar momma I think............Either way I too am curious to hear if anyone has a sugar momma, how it effected them, and how did they aquire such a treat?
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Yes, I read your post. Please eloaborate on this comment Einstein........ It has only made me doubt your intellegence. Maybe you are dunk...Hopefully anyway.MacAvoy said:Did you not read my post or are you just mentally challenged?
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Me dunk? I think you might have been drunk. Actually I was drunk and don't have a clue what I was thinking with that post either.The__Substitute said:Yes, I read your post. Please eloaborate on this comment Einstein........ It has only made me doubt your intellegence. Maybe you are dunk...Hopefully anyway.