You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's gay about finding a rich woman to marry?sparky0000 said:LOTS of gay guys go that route. very hip thing in the gay community to become an escort of sorts for wealthy single women (not the sex kind of escort). eventually the pair falls in love (yes, many gay guys do marry women) and the rest is history.
i am not calling you gay, just a very gay sort of thing to be pondering.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
hmmmmmThe__Substitute said:Intersting theory about being gay.... makes sense in a way..... could also be some messed up mother issues...... or just someone that wants an easy life and is willing to marry for a free ride through life and will most likely be a cheater.........would be hard to turn down a sugar momma I think............Either way I too am curious to hear if anyone has a sugar momma, how it effected them, and how did they aquire such a treat?
Yes, I read your post. Please eloaborate on this comment Einstein........ It has only made me doubt your intellegence. Maybe you are dunk...Hopefully anyway.MacAvoy said:Did you not read my post or are you just mentally challenged?
Me dunk? I think you might have been drunk. Actually I was drunk and don't have a clue what I was thinking with that post either.The__Substitute said:Yes, I read your post. Please eloaborate on this comment Einstein........ It has only made me doubt your intellegence. Maybe you are dunk...Hopefully anyway.