"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Create a ¨list¨ of location of DJs worldwide

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How about creating some sort of official list here, where we users go and say where we are from. Some sort of sticky?
The closest thing is this thread of ¨DJs everywhere!¨

It would help in not bringing up again and again threads on .. lets say Miami, everybody would just sign up at the list, and wed all know where everyone is from.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This would be easily done if Allen either created or installed a forum mod that would compile the usernames into a list outiftted with a location column. Speaking of lists, if Allen modified the "members" list function to include the "Location" field, this location list would be done already. :)
 
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*Cough*wingmanforum*cough* :D
 
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Originally posted by crazykid
*Cough*wingmanforum*cough* :D
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Well yeah, but now that it just started its easy to find people. But then we will find posts again and again asking for people who live in ____ place. It would save a long time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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