"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Create a ¨list¨ of location of DJs worldwide

SamePendo

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How about creating some sort of official list here, where we users go and say where we are from. Some sort of sticky?
The closest thing is this thread of ¨DJs everywhere!¨

It would help in not bringing up again and again threads on .. lets say Miami, everybody would just sign up at the list, and wed all know where everyone is from.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This would be easily done if Allen either created or installed a forum mod that would compile the usernames into a list outiftted with a location column. Speaking of lists, if Allen modified the "members" list function to include the "Location" field, this location list would be done already. :)
 

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*Cough*wingmanforum*cough* :D
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Cough*wingmanforum*cough* :D
Well yeah, but now that it just started its easy to find people. But then we will find posts again and again asking for people who live in ____ place. It would save a long time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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