"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Create a ¨list¨ of location of DJs worldwide

SamePendo

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How about creating some sort of official list here, where we users go and say where we are from. Some sort of sticky?
The closest thing is this thread of ¨DJs everywhere!¨

It would help in not bringing up again and again threads on .. lets say Miami, everybody would just sign up at the list, and wed all know where everyone is from.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This would be easily done if Allen either created or installed a forum mod that would compile the usernames into a list outiftted with a location column. Speaking of lists, if Allen modified the "members" list function to include the "Location" field, this location list would be done already. :)
 

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*Cough*wingmanforum*cough* :D
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Cough*wingmanforum*cough* :D
Well yeah, but now that it just started its easy to find people. But then we will find posts again and again asking for people who live in ____ place. It would save a long time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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