"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy thing happend to me in class today

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Today we were doing an exercise in my directing class. It's actually a combo acting/directing class and I am in the directing portion. Anyway, we the exercises were improv stuff. So, the scene that I ended up doing was with a woman opposite of me. We had to read from this paper about computers, but we had to act like we were in love with each other. It's an exercise that deals with "Absurdism," which is an acting style. At any rate, it was going fine and then as we got twoards the end, she got a really into it. She started to rub me all over and touched my ass, back chest, and shoulders. Now of course, I did NOT mind this at all. In fact, I thought she was very convincing. Hehe. Of course I choked since I was not expected it, but I was able to finish the scene with my dignity, I think. This is one of those times I REALLY wish that was not just acting. Still, fun none the less. I just thought I would let you know this of this rare occurance. Of course, this does give me some C&F opportunity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha - gotta love the theater

I remember when I was in drama club and the herr direktor (a german guy) couldn't get me and other girl to "kiss passionately"

"therhh is no pashion in this rhooom! :mad: I need pashiion frhooom you two! PASHION!"

"now you! Ice Cold. Touch her! And now kiss, no - not like that. You must FEEEEL the faiar!"

"Shaisa!":mad:

Needless to say, after about 100 kisses with passion, we became a couple. :)
 

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Haha - gotta love the theater

I remember when I was in drama club and the herr direktor (a german guy) couldn't get me and other girl to "kiss passionately"

"therhh is no pashion in this rhooom! :mad: I need pashiion frhooom you two! PASHION!"

"now you! Ice Cold. Touch her! And now kiss, no - not like that. You must FEEEEL the faiar!"

"Shaisa!":mad:

Needless to say, after about 100 kisses with passion, we became a couple. :)
Oh man, you lucky devil! Yeah, once in my advanced scene study class, I had to do a romatic scene with this girl. There was a part at the end where the two characters were supposed to kiss, but she didn't want to do that part! I said, "That's ok, I wouldn't want to kiss me either!" That got alot of laughs.
 

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this post motivates me! damn! i love theater. hehe :D
 
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She touched your rear in front of others in class? Huh? Would you have done that to a female??

If she is this bold in public, then what is she going to do to you in private. This ho is ready to go...tell her that you thought her acting was good but that you felt a litlle realism in her eagerness to grope you.

Tell her that you didn't do that well and you would like to practice the scene outside of class. Ask her if she would like to do the scene over again and with the same vigor - give her a devilish grin!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmm, well I suppose there could be a little truth to her acting today, still. Well, I guess there is only one way to find out.
 
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