"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deadly_Assassin

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Alright I met this chick last night at this popular hangout place. She said she was 16 and I am 19. Anyway we talked and stuffed and then when I asked her if I could have her no she said her phone was stuffed and shes gonna get a new one. So i ended up giving her my number. The whole time I was only interested in getting in her pants and I didnt want anything to do with her after that. She wasnt exactly my type. She was a 6 on the scale. Even if she was a 8 on looks she still lacked class. I mean she is not the type of chick I would like to introduce to my mates or my parents as my gf. I mean I couldnt even think of having a serious relationship with her. But she had the body for a good fvck.


Later on that night she rings me up asking what i was upto and stuff. I was like I am about to goto sleep, she was like ok, what was i doing tomorrow night I said not too sure yet, she asked if i wanted to meet up. And I said yea I wouldnt mind.


So i turn up at her house the next day at 8.30pm to take her out. I just wait outside and tell her to come outside. She like ok, when she comes outside she asks me if I wanna come meet some friends of hers. I didnt wanna be rude so I go inside. Just at the front door I meet her friend matt, hes 20 something and hes just standing there having a smoke. I introduce myself and I keep trying to starting up a conversation but just keep getting a cold reply. So I decide to keep my mouth shut and only open it when necessary. Then another guy comes out called sanjay, hes about the same age he starts asking me questions like how old I am ? what do I do? where did I meet the chick? The whole time it seemed like a fvcking interogation. Then he goes back in. The whole time the chick is inside the house, and I am not asked to come inside. I can overhear their conversation and her mates are like so you gotta be back by this time and where are you guys going (they seemed to be looking after her that night cos her parents where out. Her sister is on her way home with some other mates at that time) Then I hear sanjay saying that I was 19 and that I just wanted a fvck and after that I was gonna dump the chick. Then he comes out and asks matt to come in and then slams the front door.

I decide its not worth it so I start walking back to my car and the chick comes out and she says she is 14. I was like oh shyt. The shes asks if I still wanna go and I say na dont worry about it. She goes back inside and I hear her say Fvck you sanjay. I just jump back in the car and head off home.

I just wanna know if any of you guys have bad experiences like this before?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gav

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how rude's that to have you wait outside for ages talking to some pricks

you should have left earlier or at least have gone inside and started telling her to get a move on
 

Kineti[C]harm

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wasn't really the girl that was the problem, it was her friends. You should have taken control and just gone in and pulled her, she DEFENATELY wanted to go or she wouldn't have screamed "Fvck you sanjay". When she asked if you wanted togo you should just have smiled, grabber her hand and said Lets go :) Defenately would have been a real possible lay situation.
 

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thanx guys, Yea I should have left earlier that night, ah well I learnt my lesson, going prospect tonight in howick (Auckland, New Zealand) with some mates definetly gonna have a good time there specially with some alcohol down the throat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spike Shinizzle

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Originally posted by dementia
Did u read that bit about her being 14? Possible lay situation?

His name is Deadly Assassin not Michael Jackson :rolleyes: :p
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