"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Deadly_Assassin

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Alright I met this chick last night at this popular hangout place. She said she was 16 and I am 19. Anyway we talked and stuffed and then when I asked her if I could have her no she said her phone was stuffed and shes gonna get a new one. So i ended up giving her my number. The whole time I was only interested in getting in her pants and I didnt want anything to do with her after that. She wasnt exactly my type. She was a 6 on the scale. Even if she was a 8 on looks she still lacked class. I mean she is not the type of chick I would like to introduce to my mates or my parents as my gf. I mean I couldnt even think of having a serious relationship with her. But she had the body for a good fvck.


Later on that night she rings me up asking what i was upto and stuff. I was like I am about to goto sleep, she was like ok, what was i doing tomorrow night I said not too sure yet, she asked if i wanted to meet up. And I said yea I wouldnt mind.


So i turn up at her house the next day at 8.30pm to take her out. I just wait outside and tell her to come outside. She like ok, when she comes outside she asks me if I wanna come meet some friends of hers. I didnt wanna be rude so I go inside. Just at the front door I meet her friend matt, hes 20 something and hes just standing there having a smoke. I introduce myself and I keep trying to starting up a conversation but just keep getting a cold reply. So I decide to keep my mouth shut and only open it when necessary. Then another guy comes out called sanjay, hes about the same age he starts asking me questions like how old I am ? what do I do? where did I meet the chick? The whole time it seemed like a fvcking interogation. Then he goes back in. The whole time the chick is inside the house, and I am not asked to come inside. I can overhear their conversation and her mates are like so you gotta be back by this time and where are you guys going (they seemed to be looking after her that night cos her parents where out. Her sister is on her way home with some other mates at that time) Then I hear sanjay saying that I was 19 and that I just wanted a fvck and after that I was gonna dump the chick. Then he comes out and asks matt to come in and then slams the front door.

I decide its not worth it so I start walking back to my car and the chick comes out and she says she is 14. I was like oh shyt. The shes asks if I still wanna go and I say na dont worry about it. She goes back inside and I hear her say Fvck you sanjay. I just jump back in the car and head off home.

I just wanna know if any of you guys have bad experiences like this before?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gav

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how rude's that to have you wait outside for ages talking to some pricks

you should have left earlier or at least have gone inside and started telling her to get a move on
 

Kineti[C]harm

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wasn't really the girl that was the problem, it was her friends. You should have taken control and just gone in and pulled her, she DEFENATELY wanted to go or she wouldn't have screamed "Fvck you sanjay". When she asked if you wanted togo you should just have smiled, grabber her hand and said Lets go :) Defenately would have been a real possible lay situation.
 

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thanx guys, Yea I should have left earlier that night, ah well I learnt my lesson, going prospect tonight in howick (Auckland, New Zealand) with some mates definetly gonna have a good time there specially with some alcohol down the throat.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spike Shinizzle

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Originally posted by dementia
Did u read that bit about her being 14? Possible lay situation?

His name is Deadly Assassin not Michael Jackson :rolleyes: :p
ahahahahhahahahahahaha
 
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