"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crazy girl put me on her facebook cover picture with her

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I met this hot Indonesian girl at the train station the other day while sarging and took her out to a resturaunt yesterday and then back to my place and had some great sex.....however, at the resturaunt she took some pictures of me and her together and i thought nothing of it at the time...

I wake up this morning and i get a facebook friend request from her...i go check out her profile and she has me and her hugging together as her cover photo and a few more pictures of me and her on her timeline and one of us kissing even.

I feel really strange and kind of freaked out by this...she didn't even ask me or anything...it's like we are in an exclusive relationship that i didn't even know about after taking her out only once...she is very hot...but this is very strange...

I do want to keep banging her but i feel uncertain because of this major sign of crraziness...

Would you guys be freaked out by this as well> It completely took me by surprise.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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use this to your advantage to get more women, and if she is hot, what is the problem? Having a hot chick use you as her cover, is like free advertising for more chicks
 

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yeah...but it means in her mind we are in a relationship and we have only been out once...and if i link my self to it...my family and friends will be asking me who is my new GF when she is not my GF and i don't plan on her being so...her english is too limited to even have a real conversation with...
 

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No it won't, only if you have on your status she is your girlfriend, if not then your fine.
 

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zinc4 said:
yeah...but it means in her mind we are in a relationship and we have only been out once......
Bunny Boiler Brings this to mind
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would be if I were you dude

What normal chick does that after one lay?

If you keep banging her, next thing is you might have a kid that she tells you about. LOL

Don't let her suck you in because she has done a good job of it already.

Get out while you can man....my great words of advice or you will regret it.
 

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zinc4 said:
I met this hot Indonesian girl at the train station the other day while sarging and took her out to a resturaunt yesterday and then back to my place and had some great sex.....however, at the resturaunt she took some pictures of me and her together and i thought nothing of it at the time...

I wake up this morning and i get a facebook friend request from her...i go check out her profile and she has me and her hugging together as her cover photo and a few more pictures of me and her on her timeline and one of us kissing even.

I feel really strange and kind of freaked out by this...she didn't even ask me or anything...it's like we are in an exclusive relationship that i didn't even know about after taking her out only once...she is very hot...but this is very strange...

I do want to keep banging her but i feel uncertain because of this major sign of crraziness...

Would you guys be freaked out by this as well> It completely took me by surprise.
1) This is part of the reason I deleted facebook, to avoid such things as this.
2) Why would you let her take pictures to begin with? You should of realized something was fishy when she asked to take pics lol
 

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If she's hot I don't see a problem here.

Like one poster said, until she or you change relationship status it means nothing.


Some of us would like to have a hot chick be so enthusiastic.
 

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don't accept her friends request but don't reject it either then you won't be linked lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She sounds loco.

That said, if everything is on her end (her changing her cover photo on her profile, her uploading some pics) simply untag yourself and keep it moving. It's not like you guys have mutual friends, right?

However, if I were you I'd smash a few more times and then run!
 

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This ʂhit is really outta hand; the multitude of cell photos so they feel like stars on Facebook. You gotta stop em while they take the pic, or stop caring. You never know what you get with a girl off the street.
 

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No, you're safe my friend. In fact get prepared to be dumped at a moment's notice!

You're probably out of her league and she's just using you as social proof to get her ex-boyfriend to come crawling back to her :)
 

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More info is needed. Is she a maid like many filipinas and indonesians in TW or is she a student or office worker?
 

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3countriesPlan said:
More info is needed. Is she a maid like many filipinas and indonesians in TW or is she a student or office worker?
She works at a factory as far as i know....now she is posting on my timeline saying she misses me...it's too much...i really care about my on and off again gf not her...i have to tell her to back the hell off. I got some social proof out of it...but at what cost...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Obviously she is not all there mentally....

Obviously we need pics....
 

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haha is she 14 years old OP? That could explain some things. Otherwise yeah that's loony. Just tell her to knock it off.
 

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pdx1138 said:
If she's hot I don't see a problem here.
You mean hot chicks don't cause problems? LOL...:crackup:

Why don't you see a problem here? Don't you find this behavior to be odd? Who cares if she is hot!! Just because a chick may be hot, does that mean you accept their crazy behavior or bullsh!t attitude towards you? Do you just accept anything a hot chick might do to you? C'mon man...get with it!!

pdx1138 said:
Like one poster said, until she or you change relationship status it means nothing.
What are you talking about? As long as she feels in her mind that they are "together" or "in a relationship" that is what he needs to worry about. She doesn't even have to change a status online to feel that way. She can suck him and change it later. Any chick who moves this fast after one date has an agenda of some sort. You should beware of chicks who act like this!!

pdx1138 said:
Some of us would like to have a hot chick be so enthusiastic.
Yeah, the crazy chicks are always enthusiastic at first


Cremasta said:
You're probably out of her league and she's just using you as social proof to get her ex-boyfriend to come crawling back to her :)
Maybe so...If this chick is hot, she would have a guy in her league as social proof, not one that is probably out of it like you say. Would you show off a big fatty as your social proof?

To the OP: Why put up with this? if she makes you feel uncomfortable or she looney....drop her...it's as simple as that!!
 

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zinc4 said:
I met this hot Indonesian girl at the train station the other day while sarging and took her out to a resturaunt yesterday and then back to my place and had some great sex.....however, at the resturaunt she took some pictures of me and her together and i thought nothing of it at the time...

I wake up this morning and i get a facebook friend request from her...i go check out her profile and she has me and her hugging together as her cover photo and a few more pictures of me and her on her timeline and one of us kissing even.

I feel really strange and kind of freaked out by this...she didn't even ask me or anything...it's like we are in an exclusive relationship that i didn't even know about after taking her out only once...she is very hot...but this is very strange...

I do want to keep banging her but i feel uncertain because of this major sign of crraziness...

Would you guys be freaked out by this as well> It completely took me by surprise.

I wish that someone would put me as their profile picture. You are a lucky man!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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