zinc4 said:
Same thing.....you are soft...you definitely have oneinites... if she ever gets bored of you or exposes a hidden side of her personality, your world will come crumbling down....the ONLY people i really care about are my family....i had the same type of thing you describe with my ex-wife only later to realize it was all BS and the only people who are truly worth anything to me are my family members. You have known her for 4 years...that is really nothing man...you don't really know a woman until you have lived with them day in and day out for many years and are married.
Like i said man, i have been there and done that where you are...in my eyes, you are still a little boy posting pics of the girl he worships.....enough with all the right one crap. And our bond was just as strong as yours is...a woman can and will change at the drop of the hat...either batsh&t crazy or IL change...
How many sexual partners has this girl had in the past...i have recently come to realize her upbringing and sexual partner count is everything when determining a person's ability to break a bond such as marriage.
You need to understand that I have been involved in many LTR's. One for 5 years, one for 4, one for 3, and many other smaller ones in between along with lots and lots of dates. While I cared a lot for these LTR girls, I always knew in the back of my mind that I probably would not marry them. And I didn't. I am not one to just rush off and get married because society tells me it is time.
With this girl it is different. Almost since day one we have been by each others side. We are two peas in a pod. We literally do everything together except when I do something with my friends, and even then half the time she is with me. And I love it. She is the first girl I do not ever get sick of. Hell even when I had to go to the HIMSS convention recently in New Orleans for a company I consult with, the ceo asked Rose to come along for an all expenses paid trip to be a booth girl. Many guys would have said "hell no, I want to party it up in New Orleans with the guys". I jumped at the chance for her to come and we had a blast and she did a great job (She is an accountant IRL). My point is I get your point, most girls you meet and fall in love with, you get tired of. All those other girls I mentioned I couldnt wait to go spend time with the guys.
For whatever reason, with this girl I don't. Today for example, she came home from work, and right away we went to Golds Gym and worked out together. And I don't mean I do weights and she does cardio. I mean she literally went and did every exercise with me, from deadlifts to hyperextensions to lat raises. I don't see any other guys and their sig others doing that, and frankly with most girls, who would want to lol! But I do with her and she does with me. Then we came home, fixed dinner together, played online scrabble against each other, and went to bed and she is now sleeping next to me as I type this. And its great.
As for how many sexual partners she has had. I think its about 3 or 4? Not that it matters to me.
