"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Crazy Exes

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I will be brief, long story short I have two exes, one ex wife and one ex girfriend. The ex wife has cused me some problems but nothing like the ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend of 1 yr relationship, and have not been together for 3 months has decided along with my ex wife to destroy my new relationship with my new girlfriend.

Things she has done are, sent an email to my current boss and told him that I had plans to hurt him physically, sent horrible scathing emails to my daughter in law, my sons. my father and worst of all to my current girlfriend and her daughter. Needless to say a lot of hate seeds have been planted in my girl friends head. She is really on the fence about our relationship. I was wondering if anyone has had a really crazy, mental ex that has caused them this many problems. I really would like to keep this relationship but was wondering if I should just call it quits, there is no way I can defend myself about all the horrible stuff that has been made up about me. I'm thinking of throwing the towel in just to save face. By the way I did get a restraining order agaist the ex girl friend. Any advice is welcome. Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Atom Smasher

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There has to be more to this story than meets the eye. Why are they going after you so aggressively? Why do they feel they haver a score to settle with you?
 
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Atom Smasher said:
There has to be more to this story than meets the eye. Why are they going after you so aggressively? Why do they feel they haver a score to settle with you?
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Not always the case. I've learnt the hard way that women do not deal well with rejection. In any case, it's odd and perhaps there is more to this story, but that's not what he is asking. Honestly, it is quite simple. If she is ruining his life and he has a restraining order, he should go to the police.
 
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