"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Crazy Exes

imaluvnit

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I will be brief, long story short I have two exes, one ex wife and one ex girfriend. The ex wife has cused me some problems but nothing like the ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend of 1 yr relationship, and have not been together for 3 months has decided along with my ex wife to destroy my new relationship with my new girlfriend.

Things she has done are, sent an email to my current boss and told him that I had plans to hurt him physically, sent horrible scathing emails to my daughter in law, my sons. my father and worst of all to my current girlfriend and her daughter. Needless to say a lot of hate seeds have been planted in my girl friends head. She is really on the fence about our relationship. I was wondering if anyone has had a really crazy, mental ex that has caused them this many problems. I really would like to keep this relationship but was wondering if I should just call it quits, there is no way I can defend myself about all the horrible stuff that has been made up about me. I'm thinking of throwing the towel in just to save face. By the way I did get a restraining order agaist the ex girl friend. Any advice is welcome. Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Atom Smasher

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There has to be more to this story than meets the eye. Why are they going after you so aggressively? Why do they feel they haver a score to settle with you?
 

AlexDP

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Atom Smasher said:
There has to be more to this story than meets the eye. Why are they going after you so aggressively? Why do they feel they haver a score to settle with you?
Not always the case. I've learnt the hard way that women do not deal well with rejection. In any case, it's odd and perhaps there is more to this story, but that's not what he is asking. Honestly, it is quite simple. If she is ruining his life and he has a restraining order, he should go to the police.
 
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