"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats up with your recent posts... they have made absoloutly no sense... mainly the Bible one and the GTA san andreas... there were a few others... is this some new type of insiders only lingo? :p ... I'm really up for ass kissing. But this time I'm totally confused as to what your saying...?WTF... maybe I'm out of it... but could you at least explain those two posts for me... or something?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I consider this forum my personal site PM box.
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
I consider this forum my personal site PM box.
This is why you got no answer from me about it.
 

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This is why you got no answer from me about it.
i got this one.:D

okay... fine I'll Pm you from now on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
And I consider you a spamming drug-addicted nutjob. I guess we're even.
MetalFortress - 1
CapiCrimini - 0

Round 1 is now over. Go back to your corners, get a rest...And come out swinging for round 2!
 

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Who's MetalForce? I've created so many enemies I don't even know thier names. There all just faceless legions of hell. :( :p :mad: :rolleyes: :eek: :eek: :) :D
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Who's MetalForce? I've created so many enemies I don't even know thier names. There all just faceless legions of hell. :( :p :mad: :rolleyes: :eek: :eek: :) :D
You make enemies because you talk too much. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by squirrels
You make enemies because you talk too much. :)
I would read his posts if he would write something useful. ;)
 

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You make enemies because you talk too much.
I concur, and as long as were on the subject...*mindless babble*...

I would read his posts if he would write something useful.
useful is a subjective term as are most. I find many of my posts "useful" and "entertaining". I believe the quote is.

Laugh over life, don't cry over it.

that or

don't whistle while you drink.
 

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useful is a subjective term as are most. I find many of my posts "useful" and "entertaining". I believe the quote is.
Yeah? And I think I should be paid for posting to this crazy place.
 
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