"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whats up with your recent posts... they have made absoloutly no sense... mainly the Bible one and the GTA san andreas... there were a few others... is this some new type of insiders only lingo? :p ... I'm really up for ass kissing. But this time I'm totally confused as to what your saying...?WTF... maybe I'm out of it... but could you at least explain those two posts for me... or something?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I consider this forum my personal site PM box.
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
I consider this forum my personal site PM box.
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This is why you got no answer from me about it.
 
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This is why you got no answer from me about it.
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i got this one.:D

okay... fine I'll Pm you from now on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
And I consider you a spamming drug-addicted nutjob. I guess we're even.
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Round 1 is now over. Go back to your corners, get a rest...And come out swinging for round 2!
 
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Who's MetalForce? I've created so many enemies I don't even know thier names. There all just faceless legions of hell. :( :p :mad: :rolleyes: :eek: :eek: :) :D
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Who's MetalForce? I've created so many enemies I don't even know thier names. There all just faceless legions of hell. :( :p :mad: :rolleyes: :eek: :eek: :) :D
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You make enemies because you talk too much. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by squirrels
You make enemies because you talk too much. :)
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I would read his posts if he would write something useful. ;)
 
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You make enemies because you talk too much.
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I concur, and as long as were on the subject...*mindless babble*...

I would read his posts if he would write something useful.
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useful is a subjective term as are most. I find many of my posts "useful" and "entertaining". I believe the quote is.

Laugh over life, don't cry over it.

that or

don't whistle while you drink.
 
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useful is a subjective term as are most. I find many of my posts "useful" and "entertaining". I believe the quote is.
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Yeah? And I think I should be paid for posting to this crazy place.
 
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