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Master Don Juan
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what you think?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Check your PMGaucho said:Blake Griffin and Chris Paul, damn, I'm looking forward to seeing that!
Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!The Experience said:It's weird seeing all these new players on the mavs. Individually they are all good players so well see how well they play together as a team as time goes on. Being a mavs but also a lakers fan, I really wanted to see cp3 and Dwight Howard play together although I still think Howard will be on the lakers soon and I heard that since Lopez is out in new jersey (or brooklyn) that gasol could be traded for deron Williams..
But anyways cp3 with billups and griffin will make for an exciting game each time.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Both the mavs and Chandler wanted to stay together buy they want different ends. The mavs offered a 1 year 20 mil contract knowing that they would need cap space at the end of the year for the next new star the mavs are searching for. And for Chandler the price was good but he wanted more security such as a four or five year deal with the same team.Gaucho said:Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!
WTF did the Mavs get rid of Chandler for?