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Master Don Juan
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Check your PMGaucho said:Blake Griffin and Chris Paul, damn, I'm looking forward to seeing that!
Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!The Experience said:It's weird seeing all these new players on the mavs. Individually they are all good players so well see how well they play together as a team as time goes on. Being a mavs but also a lakers fan, I really wanted to see cp3 and Dwight Howard play together although I still think Howard will be on the lakers soon and I heard that since Lopez is out in new jersey (or brooklyn) that gasol could be traded for deron Williams..
But anyways cp3 with billups and griffin will make for an exciting game each time.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Both the mavs and Chandler wanted to stay together buy they want different ends. The mavs offered a 1 year 20 mil contract knowing that they would need cap space at the end of the year for the next new star the mavs are searching for. And for Chandler the price was good but he wanted more security such as a four or five year deal with the same team.Gaucho said:Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!
WTF did the Mavs get rid of Chandler for?