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Master Don Juan
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- Nov 19, 2009
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what you think?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Check your PMGaucho said:Blake Griffin and Chris Paul, damn, I'm looking forward to seeing that!
Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!The Experience said:It's weird seeing all these new players on the mavs. Individually they are all good players so well see how well they play together as a team as time goes on. Being a mavs but also a lakers fan, I really wanted to see cp3 and Dwight Howard play together although I still think Howard will be on the lakers soon and I heard that since Lopez is out in new jersey (or brooklyn) that gasol could be traded for deron Williams..
But anyways cp3 with billups and griffin will make for an exciting game each time.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Both the mavs and Chandler wanted to stay together buy they want different ends. The mavs offered a 1 year 20 mil contract knowing that they would need cap space at the end of the year for the next new star the mavs are searching for. And for Chandler the price was good but he wanted more security such as a four or five year deal with the same team.Gaucho said:Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!
WTF did the Mavs get rid of Chandler for?