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Master Don Juan
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what you think?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Check your PMGaucho said:Blake Griffin and Chris Paul, damn, I'm looking forward to seeing that!
Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!The Experience said:It's weird seeing all these new players on the mavs. Individually they are all good players so well see how well they play together as a team as time goes on. Being a mavs but also a lakers fan, I really wanted to see cp3 and Dwight Howard play together although I still think Howard will be on the lakers soon and I heard that since Lopez is out in new jersey (or brooklyn) that gasol could be traded for deron Williams..
But anyways cp3 with billups and griffin will make for an exciting game each time.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Both the mavs and Chandler wanted to stay together buy they want different ends. The mavs offered a 1 year 20 mil contract knowing that they would need cap space at the end of the year for the next new star the mavs are searching for. And for Chandler the price was good but he wanted more security such as a four or five year deal with the same team.Gaucho said:Now that would be a good move for the Lakers, Deron and Dwight, two guys with pure quality!
WTF did the Mavs get rid of Chandler for?