guys, situation is: hot co-worker, 10 years younger than me, when I speak she hangs off my words but seems to be shy, so she doesn't take a lot of initiative but laughs at my jokes. I know she has a boyfriend but not sure how strong that relationship is (he seems to be rich). I'm keen to investigate more but there's no comfort yet when we talk, I can't understand whether I've got a chance or not. I haven't asked her out yet but she usually attends business events and seems to be happy to spend a lot of time with me. I know someone will say "don't **** where you eat", it's fine but am not risking anything. Not sure whether to ask her out for a 1-2-1 or arrange something with other colleagues and isolate to see what happens. Any suggestion on how to proceed?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
coworker, how to proceed?
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
All the 13 co-workers I fvcked over the years happened after nights out on the booze.
I just had an uncanny knack of building flirtatious tension at work and then going balls deep when they're alcohol intake caused them to act on their desires.
I never set up a formal date, I just planted seeds by day and then made sure I was around when the booze was flowing.
It's not advisable to dip your pen in the company ink but I guess I was just very lucky not to suffer any serious blowback in my dalliances.
I just had an uncanny knack of building flirtatious tension at work and then going balls deep when they're alcohol intake caused them to act on their desires.
I never set up a formal date, I just planted seeds by day and then made sure I was around when the booze was flowing.
It's not advisable to dip your pen in the company ink but I guess I was just very lucky not to suffer any serious blowback in my dalliances.