"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Covid-19 = Flu

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Feel free to be as paranoid as you like. It would actually be amusing, if the implications of sewing mass panic and hysteria weren't so serious.

However, you do realize that just blindly following the political/media consensus doesn't mean you aren't delusional, right?

Look. I'm a bit of a germaphone, myself. I wash my hands longer, more vigorously, and more often than most people think is normal. I don't offer to shake hands with anyone the least bit sketchy, and am extremely reluctant, if they offer their hands to me. I keep hand sanitizer everywhere, and go through tons of it. I sterilize everything before I use. I scrupulously avoid public restrooms. I refuse to use other people's pens, and a dozen other things most people find obsessive behavior...and that's just on an average summer day. During flu season, I really keep my distance, and would rather huff Lysol than inhale another person's breath. I rarely get sick, but that's too often for me, and I try to avoid the common cold like it's the plague. So, when I tell you that people are carrying this "social distancing" thing wAaaaay too far, you should heed my words.

This is a zombie apocalypse level over-reaction to what amounts to a very bad cold, for elderly people and those in already fragile health(those for whom even the sniffles can be life-threatening).

I'm not telling everyone to run out and french kiss a hobo. But, if you're under 60 and healthy, you need to get your @55 back to work. This sheltering in place cr@p is a bit redundant for a generation that already does 99% of its "socializing" through text, snatch chap, insta clam, flake book, tw@tter, d!ck-dock, and a whole lot of other "social media" buulshiit I haven't even heard of yet.
Panic? Don't even bother spinning that lie, I might just end up thinking that u r in fact a spinster by trade.

Following ur own health department guidelines (social distancing) is spreading panic?

You even dare to spin this..

I strongly suggest you consider taking some vitamins to increase ur level of IQ.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yet another thread thrown into the trash heap because of pointless personal arguing.
 
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