"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Couple questions...

crossboss

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1. If a girl shows her tongue when talking to you, does that mean she is interested?

2. What does it mean when a woman follows her emotions? Why are women like, "He just doesn't get it." Why don't they just follow logic like guys. A woman answered the question but not really giving an answer. Said something to the affect that women do follow logic sometimes. But said a statement that didn't make sense, saying that's the way it is.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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first question is too vague, second question is too big to answer, but don't worry, the conclusion is easy to get once you think about it.
 

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#1. This is just flirting, in most cases... which is a good thing.

#2. Okay.... girls following emotion, means, that they basically are trying to do what all those chick-flick movies are telling them to do in terms of boyfriends and such. "Why don't they follow logic like guys?" Because they are girls , not guys, HUGE difference, get over it.

Then i had no idea what you said in your mini story.
 

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Thanks.

Yeah, I guess if you think about it girls just like romance.
 

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Now that I think about it again.

The fact girls seem to be natural dj's, and most guys AFC's. The fact that girls follow emotions, does that have anything to with thier ability to be natural at attraction?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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