"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Couple questions...

crossboss

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1. If a girl shows her tongue when talking to you, does that mean she is interested?

2. What does it mean when a woman follows her emotions? Why are women like, "He just doesn't get it." Why don't they just follow logic like guys. A woman answered the question but not really giving an answer. Said something to the affect that women do follow logic sometimes. But said a statement that didn't make sense, saying that's the way it is.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wavejams007

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first question is too vague, second question is too big to answer, but don't worry, the conclusion is easy to get once you think about it.
 

LuckyDevil6

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#1. This is just flirting, in most cases... which is a good thing.

#2. Okay.... girls following emotion, means, that they basically are trying to do what all those chick-flick movies are telling them to do in terms of boyfriends and such. "Why don't they follow logic like guys?" Because they are girls , not guys, HUGE difference, get over it.

Then i had no idea what you said in your mini story.
 

crossboss

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Thanks.

Yeah, I guess if you think about it girls just like romance.
 

crossboss

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Now that I think about it again.

The fact girls seem to be natural dj's, and most guys AFC's. The fact that girls follow emotions, does that have anything to with thier ability to be natural at attraction?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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