"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Couple questions...

crossboss

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1. If a girl shows her tongue when talking to you, does that mean she is interested?

2. What does it mean when a woman follows her emotions? Why are women like, "He just doesn't get it." Why don't they just follow logic like guys. A woman answered the question but not really giving an answer. Said something to the affect that women do follow logic sometimes. But said a statement that didn't make sense, saying that's the way it is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wavejams007

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first question is too vague, second question is too big to answer, but don't worry, the conclusion is easy to get once you think about it.
 

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#1. This is just flirting, in most cases... which is a good thing.

#2. Okay.... girls following emotion, means, that they basically are trying to do what all those chick-flick movies are telling them to do in terms of boyfriends and such. "Why don't they follow logic like guys?" Because they are girls , not guys, HUGE difference, get over it.

Then i had no idea what you said in your mini story.
 

crossboss

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Thanks.

Yeah, I guess if you think about it girls just like romance.
 

crossboss

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Now that I think about it again.

The fact girls seem to be natural dj's, and most guys AFC's. The fact that girls follow emotions, does that have anything to with thier ability to be natural at attraction?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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