"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey everyone i dont usually start topics but something is really bugging me right now. Ok, so when im working on a girl and everything is going good, all the sudden i tease her or do something little and she will flip out on me. This has happened to me at least 3 times now in the past month, and everytime it happens i am clueless about what to do. Any help?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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These girls are hot, HB's 8-9's, so i tease/neg them alot

Its not over the top, its more like they call me out on it, then stop talking for a while, or just decide to ignore me all together

I usually just tease about little things that are going on at the moment

Teasing is a big part of my game, except not all of it

Btw, it is with more than one girl that the exact same thing happened.
 

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But what do you tease them about bro? They might be getting insulted.. I mean both of them aren't talking to you after you neg them..
 

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I have never liked negs but they are useful, the point is even is she is a HB10 don't neg too much. You only neg when they start getting a little too confident and try to dominate.

She gets on her high horse tries to take control so you neg to put her back into place. If you neg too much you come off as obnoxious and immature so they will ignore you.

It is also important to watch what you say a neg isn’t a insult, it isn't meant to be derogative and it’s not meant to offend her well at least not too much. The best negs are subtle and witty. Witt usually entails you to use something in the current conversation and spin it into a neg.

Negs should not be a big part of your game they should just be there as backup. Use all your other methods and only use negs when you notice she is trying to get control of the situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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