"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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asdfghjkl

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Hey everyone i dont usually start topics but something is really bugging me right now. Ok, so when im working on a girl and everything is going good, all the sudden i tease her or do something little and she will flip out on me. This has happened to me at least 3 times now in the past month, and everytime it happens i am clueless about what to do. Any help?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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These girls are hot, HB's 8-9's, so i tease/neg them alot

Its not over the top, its more like they call me out on it, then stop talking for a while, or just decide to ignore me all together

I usually just tease about little things that are going on at the moment

Teasing is a big part of my game, except not all of it

Btw, it is with more than one girl that the exact same thing happened.
 

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But what do you tease them about bro? They might be getting insulted.. I mean both of them aren't talking to you after you neg them..
 

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I have never liked negs but they are useful, the point is even is she is a HB10 don't neg too much. You only neg when they start getting a little too confident and try to dominate.

She gets on her high horse tries to take control so you neg to put her back into place. If you neg too much you come off as obnoxious and immature so they will ignore you.

It is also important to watch what you say a neg isn’t a insult, it isn't meant to be derogative and it’s not meant to offend her well at least not too much. The best negs are subtle and witty. Witt usually entails you to use something in the current conversation and spin it into a neg.

Negs should not be a big part of your game they should just be there as backup. Use all your other methods and only use negs when you notice she is trying to get control of the situation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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