"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey everyone i dont usually start topics but something is really bugging me right now. Ok, so when im working on a girl and everything is going good, all the sudden i tease her or do something little and she will flip out on me. This has happened to me at least 3 times now in the past month, and everytime it happens i am clueless about what to do. Any help?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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These girls are hot, HB's 8-9's, so i tease/neg them alot

Its not over the top, its more like they call me out on it, then stop talking for a while, or just decide to ignore me all together

I usually just tease about little things that are going on at the moment

Teasing is a big part of my game, except not all of it

Btw, it is with more than one girl that the exact same thing happened.
 

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But what do you tease them about bro? They might be getting insulted.. I mean both of them aren't talking to you after you neg them..
 

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I have never liked negs but they are useful, the point is even is she is a HB10 don't neg too much. You only neg when they start getting a little too confident and try to dominate.

She gets on her high horse tries to take control so you neg to put her back into place. If you neg too much you come off as obnoxious and immature so they will ignore you.

It is also important to watch what you say a neg isn’t a insult, it isn't meant to be derogative and it’s not meant to offend her well at least not too much. The best negs are subtle and witty. Witt usually entails you to use something in the current conversation and spin it into a neg.

Negs should not be a big part of your game they should just be there as backup. Use all your other methods and only use negs when you notice she is trying to get control of the situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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