"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Could someone explain to me why political conversations are not allowed

Borgia

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Hey

I don';t understand why they are not - fine they may be circular and get angry but thats part of life - if people want to discuss something then i think that they should be allowed to do so,

I know that there are other places on the internet for discussions but i am not talking about other forums - i am talking about sosuave, you have a "anything else" forum - why is it called that if you can't discuss anything else?

Borgia
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Saine

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Because obviously you're new and have not been to the past where the flame in the political thread was so powerful, some even threat to kill. :) :D :D
 

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Because people would get so worked up about the issues that they started posting thread after thread, using the subject titles to push their points of view, until the political threads started to squeeze aside all other topics of discussion.
 

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Do a search in this forum. Type in 'politics' or 'political'. That should bring up the posts that will answer your question.
 
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