"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Could someone explain to me why political conversations are not allowed

Borgia

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Hey

I don';t understand why they are not - fine they may be circular and get angry but thats part of life - if people want to discuss something then i think that they should be allowed to do so,

I know that there are other places on the internet for discussions but i am not talking about other forums - i am talking about sosuave, you have a "anything else" forum - why is it called that if you can't discuss anything else?

Borgia
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Saine

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Because obviously you're new and have not been to the past where the flame in the political thread was so powerful, some even threat to kill. :) :D :D
 

DeepBlue

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Because people would get so worked up about the issues that they started posting thread after thread, using the subject titles to push their points of view, until the political threads started to squeeze aside all other topics of discussion.
 

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Do a search in this forum. Type in 'politics' or 'political'. That should bring up the posts that will answer your question.
 
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