"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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could kill this b*tch

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I'd been hooking up w/ this girl for a few weeks. Once a couple weeks ago she borrowed some DVDs (Dave Chappelle, Family Guy, the Ring). I called her today and asked to pick them up. she said OK and asked to borrow another...aside from that she probably knew i was going to pick them up and never call again....so i go to her apartment and it's dark, no answer, she doesn't pick up the phone...i'm pretty sure this low life biatch basically stole my DVDs. She probably went to her neighbors or something while i knocked on the door...some people are just plain derelicts. that was about $80 of DVDs :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So basically she zinged you before you zinged her.....sounds pretty smart to me.

Can't you report her to the police?
 
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maybe an attempt to make you keep coming over?

so she can string you along. let her have it, in their own little worlds, thinking that they have your stuff means they have control over you.

usually i dont bother letting girls borrow my stuff, lending them stuff practically means giviing it to them. cause in the end, they'll never be courteous enough to return it w/o u asking....damn *****es.

last time i lent some dvds to this girl, i told her my friend wanted his dvd's back (which was real) and she brought em back.
altho the hot glue gun she jacked from me after saying it was for lend, doesnt matter she's kept it for over a year already, was cheap gun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah i normally don't lend my stuff out but it was like 5am and i was blitzed...i've ALL her info and she has none of mine. should i do something about it?
 
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I think i'll just leave her a message and basically say I have her address, first/last name and receipts and that i'm going to get police involved if she doesn't agree to return them.
 
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