"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cougars lament online dating

bigjohnson

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" I have to watch myself around him. I am very, very attracted to him and can see myself ****ing his brains out. But I would end up hating myself as he moved on as he eventually will."

Cuts off nose to spite her face - yes, must be female.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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crashbutnotburn

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Like we have it any easier? Anyone ever try AFF? 9/10 chicks on these "dating" sites are just trying to get you to "*** visit me at nicencute dot. . . ." Don't get me started on MySpace.

Currently dating a financially-secure, 39 year old hardbody cougar and loving it. Met her on Goodreads, a MySpace-type site for bookworms. Go figure.
 
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