"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cougars lament online dating

bigjohnson

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" I have to watch myself around him. I am very, very attracted to him and can see myself ****ing his brains out. But I would end up hating myself as he moved on as he eventually will."

Cuts off nose to spite her face - yes, must be female.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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crashbutnotburn

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Like we have it any easier? Anyone ever try AFF? 9/10 chicks on these "dating" sites are just trying to get you to "*** visit me at nicencute dot. . . ." Don't get me started on MySpace.

Currently dating a financially-secure, 39 year old hardbody cougar and loving it. Met her on Goodreads, a MySpace-type site for bookworms. Go figure.
 
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