"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cougars lament online dating

bigjohnson

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" I have to watch myself around him. I am very, very attracted to him and can see myself ****ing his brains out. But I would end up hating myself as he moved on as he eventually will."

Cuts off nose to spite her face - yes, must be female.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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crashbutnotburn

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Like we have it any easier? Anyone ever try AFF? 9/10 chicks on these "dating" sites are just trying to get you to "*** visit me at nicencute dot. . . ." Don't get me started on MySpace.

Currently dating a financially-secure, 39 year old hardbody cougar and loving it. Met her on Goodreads, a MySpace-type site for bookworms. Go figure.
 
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