timmylivingalie
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What do you say when this happens?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Bible_Belt
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Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom. What do you say when this happens?
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PapiChulo
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It's a sh!t test 80% of the time only. Sometimes they do mean it. Speaking from experience.
YouKnowI'mRight
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Aaron B said:
Yup to both of those. Just looking at her like she spoke some obscure foreign language works as well as just behaving as if it's completely outside of your reality. Actually, they both indicate the same thing --- DID NOT COMPUTE.Crissco said:
What her reasons were for doing it don't matter, but if you really don't care about the age deal then it shouldn't effect you any more than puzzling you or just not computing in your brain.
Do either of the above and you pass. She'll move on to more advanced ones (unconsciously).....after all she's experienced
Speaking of which, I highly recommend that guys go out with girls from the previous generation. You'll pick up LOTS of experience, competence, confidence, and it'll make getting girls your own age childs-play.
It's story telling time :woo: ! You're not getting out of this one!Bible_Belt said:Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom. What do you say when this happens?
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
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This is one of Judge nismo's favorite topics!Bible_Belt said:Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom. What do you say when this happens?
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
Bible Belt, I had a Louisiana woman who was 63 tell me this while we were in a Popeye's Chicken, and I ignored the comment. What did I do? I just leaned in and kissed her, then I nibbled on her neck. It shut that sh*t test down. Eventually, we went out to Stone Mountain, then she took Judge nismo to chambers! She was great in the sack too, not to mention still fine for her age!
But she eventually realized that she was under my spell and eventually told me that things were age inappropriate. C'est La Vie. F**k it, as I already did that to her. Perhaps I made her sore while I stretched her vagina out. She went back to Louisiana walking like she got a good pounding from my gavel!
Alas, this is often times a sh*t test. Use the kiss defense as stated above. Or use the age defense (If she's 45, say you're + or - 2 years old. That would be 43-47 in this case.) Or use the "dance like nobody's watching" defense and call her out for her fear, to make her want you. Best combined with the kiss defense. Do a light lick too and tell her about her perfume.
Or use the ignore defense (When she talks about age, just keep going like you didn't hear it.) The right use of these defenses, might get you in chambers! :yes: Discussing and reasoning with the age difference is counter-intuitive.:nono:
Don't give up the frame.:nono:
Don't look at her as discounted goods.:nono:
Don't forget to hold hands, and if you're bold like me, kiss it! Read and apply my sig. :yes:
And do be romantic! That's my ruling.
Case closed.:rockon:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fumbduck
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I've had that happen to me. I just respond with:
"Yeah you are old enough to be my mom, cradle-robber"
"Yeah you are old enough to be my mom, cradle-robber
"timmylivingalie
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I been just ignoring that she that and freezed her out for a little while. Back to gaming her again.