timmylivingalie
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What do you say when this happens?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
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Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom. What do you say when this happens?
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PapiChulo
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It's a sh!t test 80% of the time only. Sometimes they do mean it. Speaking from experience.
YouKnowI'mRight
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Aaron B said:
Yup to both of those. Just looking at her like she spoke some obscure foreign language works as well as just behaving as if it's completely outside of your reality. Actually, they both indicate the same thing --- DID NOT COMPUTE.Crissco said:
What her reasons were for doing it don't matter, but if you really don't care about the age deal then it shouldn't effect you any more than puzzling you or just not computing in your brain.
Do either of the above and you pass. She'll move on to more advanced ones (unconsciously).....after all she's experienced
Speaking of which, I highly recommend that guys go out with girls from the previous generation. You'll pick up LOTS of experience, competence, confidence, and it'll make getting girls your own age childs-play.
It's story telling time :woo: ! You're not getting out of this one!Bible_Belt said:Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom. What do you say when this happens?
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
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This is one of Judge nismo's favorite topics!Bible_Belt said:Cougar says shes old enough to be my mom. What do you say when this happens?
"These things happen." And then just keep going.
fwiw, I once did a woman old enough to be my grandma.
Bible Belt, I had a Louisiana woman who was 63 tell me this while we were in a Popeye's Chicken, and I ignored the comment. What did I do? I just leaned in and kissed her, then I nibbled on her neck. It shut that sh*t test down. Eventually, we went out to Stone Mountain, then she took Judge nismo to chambers! She was great in the sack too, not to mention still fine for her age!
But she eventually realized that she was under my spell and eventually told me that things were age inappropriate. C'est La Vie. F**k it, as I already did that to her. Perhaps I made her sore while I stretched her vagina out. She went back to Louisiana walking like she got a good pounding from my gavel!
Alas, this is often times a sh*t test. Use the kiss defense as stated above. Or use the age defense (If she's 45, say you're + or - 2 years old. That would be 43-47 in this case.) Or use the "dance like nobody's watching" defense and call her out for her fear, to make her want you. Best combined with the kiss defense. Do a light lick too and tell her about her perfume.
Or use the ignore defense (When she talks about age, just keep going like you didn't hear it.) The right use of these defenses, might get you in chambers! :yes: Discussing and reasoning with the age difference is counter-intuitive.:nono:
Don't give up the frame.:nono:
Don't look at her as discounted goods.:nono:
Don't forget to hold hands, and if you're bold like me, kiss it! Read and apply my sig. :yes:
And do be romantic! That's my ruling.
Case closed.:rockon:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fumbduck
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I've had that happen to me. I just respond with:
"Yeah you are old enough to be my mom, cradle-robber"
"Yeah you are old enough to be my mom, cradle-robber
"timmylivingalie
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I been just ignoring that she that and freezed her out for a little while. Back to gaming her again.