"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cottonsuave

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I decided to join and start my own journal for accountability. This is not gonna be your normal journal as its only gonna start off with small goals and progressively work my way up. I'm hopin I can bring some knowledge to the forum and maybe inspire others to do a journal also.
Goals for 9/28/2011
  • Drink 1 gallon of water, No more grains (trying to eat Paleo)
    Say Hi to 10 hotties (little female experience, DJ bootcamp format)
    Finish Paper for Sociology (Sophomore in community college)
    Go back to my kickboxing class
    Read 1/4 of my book (The Power of Now)
Im, gonna write these in my school planner so I can look at them throughout the day. I figure going at a slow pace and building up on workload would make stickin to this alot easer. Can't make a lifestyle change overnight. Feel free to critique my goals/give tips. Wish me luck and see you tonight
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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finish paper + kickbox + reading book = a day well spent
 

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Damn, yesterday was not so good.
Only drank three forths of the gallon
Didnt finish the paper (Need help from teacher)
Went to Kickboxing ++++
Didn't read (Too tired when I get home)
Only said Hey to 1 hot female (Damn I got no confidence)

Yeah crappy day yesterday so I'm doin everything in my power to try these goals again.
 

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I really like this stuff, great way to change for the better, and may even try it myself.
I wish you loads of luck and strength, may you conquer them all. :D
 

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I was feelin fairly euphoric today, maybe its the ADHD meds. still can't drink a damn gallon of water(only got 3/4 lol), finished my paper though :woo:. Didnt say hi to ten hotties because I felt like gettin some numbers. Went three for three number closing (Two classmate girls, one cold library approach). Makes me realize that this info on here is useful, but nowhere near as rewarding as real world application. It was almost surreal (never gotten three numbers in the same day, never had the motivation or balls to try) and I really wanted to fail to see if it was really me inside my body. I would post the interactions but what I said sounded so stupid when I typed it out (It worked for me though :)).

If I could give my first tip it has to be to get a online journal (its a damn good motivator)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Been taking it easy this weekend. Went to my first University football game in a while with dad. Really rewarding experience. Been textin girls alot this weekend but not really set up any dates. Here are some goals for this upcoming week.

  • Make some new friends. (I need some new networking connections)
    Workout 3 times this week. (YES!!, Im loving training again)
    5 phone numbers (one for each workday)
    Sign up for lumosity. (Just done my free trial, talk about a brain workout)
    Finish current book and half of new book. (gonna check out "On The Road" by Jack Kerouc
    Detail and tune up the car
    Visit my Grandpa at least once (He's old and enjoys anybodys company)
Sorry if there isn't enough action in my journal. Gettin girls is a big reason for this journal but my main focus for a few weeks is to get my life in order (Try to update myself and everything about me) Thanks for reading
 

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I'll be following this young grasshopper, may the spirit and force of the field reporters before you guide you in the way of the Jedi (DJ)

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Got a quick question. What do you do when you have friends that comment on your physical imperfections. Its happened a bunch but I just brush it off. Like deep down I just wanna call em out (my head's saying smack him, he won't say it again). But I feel that just shows my insecurity and lack of control. How do you guys handle this situation.
 

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Cottonsuave said:
Got a quick question. What do you do when you have friends that comment on your physical imperfections. Its happened a bunch but I just brush it off. Like deep down I just wanna call em out (my head's saying smack him, he won't say it again). But I feel that just shows my insecurity and lack of control. How do you guys handle this situation.
My friends make fun of the fact that I'm big all the time, what I do is make fun of them for being small or skinny, you just either ignore it or make fun of them getting angry is what they deep down may want. It sucks trust me espeically if your an easy target (I hang out with guys who are all ripped or in decent shape I'm the fattie now out the clique)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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