"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cottonsuave

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I decided to join and start my own journal for accountability. This is not gonna be your normal journal as its only gonna start off with small goals and progressively work my way up. I'm hopin I can bring some knowledge to the forum and maybe inspire others to do a journal also.
Goals for 9/28/2011
  • Drink 1 gallon of water, No more grains (trying to eat Paleo)
    Say Hi to 10 hotties (little female experience, DJ bootcamp format)
    Finish Paper for Sociology (Sophomore in community college)
    Go back to my kickboxing class
    Read 1/4 of my book (The Power of Now)
Im, gonna write these in my school planner so I can look at them throughout the day. I figure going at a slow pace and building up on workload would make stickin to this alot easer. Can't make a lifestyle change overnight. Feel free to critique my goals/give tips. Wish me luck and see you tonight
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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finish paper + kickbox + reading book = a day well spent
 

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Damn, yesterday was not so good.
Only drank three forths of the gallon
Didnt finish the paper (Need help from teacher)
Went to Kickboxing ++++
Didn't read (Too tired when I get home)
Only said Hey to 1 hot female (Damn I got no confidence)

Yeah crappy day yesterday so I'm doin everything in my power to try these goals again.
 

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I really like this stuff, great way to change for the better, and may even try it myself.
I wish you loads of luck and strength, may you conquer them all. :D
 

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I was feelin fairly euphoric today, maybe its the ADHD meds. still can't drink a damn gallon of water(only got 3/4 lol), finished my paper though :woo:. Didnt say hi to ten hotties because I felt like gettin some numbers. Went three for three number closing (Two classmate girls, one cold library approach). Makes me realize that this info on here is useful, but nowhere near as rewarding as real world application. It was almost surreal (never gotten three numbers in the same day, never had the motivation or balls to try) and I really wanted to fail to see if it was really me inside my body. I would post the interactions but what I said sounded so stupid when I typed it out (It worked for me though :)).

If I could give my first tip it has to be to get a online journal (its a damn good motivator)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Been taking it easy this weekend. Went to my first University football game in a while with dad. Really rewarding experience. Been textin girls alot this weekend but not really set up any dates. Here are some goals for this upcoming week.

  • Make some new friends. (I need some new networking connections)
    Workout 3 times this week. (YES!!, Im loving training again)
    5 phone numbers (one for each workday)
    Sign up for lumosity. (Just done my free trial, talk about a brain workout)
    Finish current book and half of new book. (gonna check out "On The Road" by Jack Kerouc
    Detail and tune up the car
    Visit my Grandpa at least once (He's old and enjoys anybodys company)
Sorry if there isn't enough action in my journal. Gettin girls is a big reason for this journal but my main focus for a few weeks is to get my life in order (Try to update myself and everything about me) Thanks for reading
 

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I'll be following this young grasshopper, may the spirit and force of the field reporters before you guide you in the way of the Jedi (DJ)

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Got a quick question. What do you do when you have friends that comment on your physical imperfections. Its happened a bunch but I just brush it off. Like deep down I just wanna call em out (my head's saying smack him, he won't say it again). But I feel that just shows my insecurity and lack of control. How do you guys handle this situation.
 

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Cottonsuave said:
Got a quick question. What do you do when you have friends that comment on your physical imperfections. Its happened a bunch but I just brush it off. Like deep down I just wanna call em out (my head's saying smack him, he won't say it again). But I feel that just shows my insecurity and lack of control. How do you guys handle this situation.
My friends make fun of the fact that I'm big all the time, what I do is make fun of them for being small or skinny, you just either ignore it or make fun of them getting angry is what they deep down may want. It sucks trust me espeically if your an easy target (I hang out with guys who are all ripped or in decent shape I'm the fattie now out the clique)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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