"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Costume party

felony

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Guys,
I've got a theme party in a couple of days and i need some ideas for what to dress up as. You are required to dress up as "when i grow up i want to be" ... can't be doctors or dentists cos thats what we will be.

Ideas are things like construction workers, pimps, h. heffner, fireman etc.

I have very little in the way of costumes- can't do stuff like policeman or plumber. I want to do something simple and easy- so that after the event i can go out to a club or whatever in the clothes i am wearing.

I was thinking something like james bond, or zorro... a formal attire, black outfit... or suit... with something easy like a mask , bandana etc.

Need something that will also be effective.

Cheers,
f.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheRelic

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Go as a sophisticated english scholar.

Formal attire, and a magnifying glass end taped to a stick as a monocle.

Field tested, and guaranteed to please ;).
 

CableLight

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Just wear a loin cloth...Tell people you're "Zebnar - Lord of JUNGLE!"
 

Don_Joffe

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Ever watched the movie Don Juan De Marco? Dress like him, with the mask and all. Or another good idea is dressing like Superman or Batman.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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duke007

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Originally posted by TheRelic
Go as a sophisticated english scholar.

Formal attire, and a magnifying glass end taped to a stick as a monocle.

Field tested, and guaranteed to please ;).
I second this idea. You can find a crappy old Sherlock Holmes style brown patterned jacket at an op-shop for cheap. Bring a cane and tap girls on the arse with it! Oh and say you're from Essex or Sussex or one of those.

My sister always raves excitedly about guys who dressed up at parties like this. According to her all the girls love it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

StrivetoThrive

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You should dress up like a thug. Wear a bandana, chain, beater, bubble vest, boots, wicked big sweatpants and pull one leg up. First of all its really comfortable, and its pretty funny. I did it for a party one time and i was rockin out with my cack out later. And I'm a 5'9 165 lb white guy and pulled this off. Do it.
 

felony

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Hey guys thanks for the ideas.

I've decided to go as A.powers. Do a search in the forums [costume party, halloween, etc] to read up why this outfit is gonna rock for me.

I've got the whole outfit...Ill let u know how it goes.

Shall we shag now or shag later?

f.
 

Baruch

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Originally posted by felony
Hey guys thanks for the ideas.

I've decided to go as A.powers. Do a search in the forums [costume party, halloween, etc] to read up why this outfit is gonna rock for me.

I've got the whole outfit...Ill let u know how it goes.

Shall we shag now or shag later?

f.
i was thinkin about doing it as well, but i just dont have the accent for it.
 
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