"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Costume party

felony

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Guys,
I've got a theme party in a couple of days and i need some ideas for what to dress up as. You are required to dress up as "when i grow up i want to be" ... can't be doctors or dentists cos thats what we will be.

Ideas are things like construction workers, pimps, h. heffner, fireman etc.

I have very little in the way of costumes- can't do stuff like policeman or plumber. I want to do something simple and easy- so that after the event i can go out to a club or whatever in the clothes i am wearing.

I was thinking something like james bond, or zorro... a formal attire, black outfit... or suit... with something easy like a mask , bandana etc.

Need something that will also be effective.

Cheers,
f.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheRelic

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Go as a sophisticated english scholar.

Formal attire, and a magnifying glass end taped to a stick as a monocle.

Field tested, and guaranteed to please ;).
 

CableLight

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Just wear a loin cloth...Tell people you're "Zebnar - Lord of JUNGLE!"
 

Don_Joffe

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Ever watched the movie Don Juan De Marco? Dress like him, with the mask and all. Or another good idea is dressing like Superman or Batman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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duke007

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Originally posted by TheRelic
Go as a sophisticated english scholar.

Formal attire, and a magnifying glass end taped to a stick as a monocle.

Field tested, and guaranteed to please ;).
I second this idea. You can find a crappy old Sherlock Holmes style brown patterned jacket at an op-shop for cheap. Bring a cane and tap girls on the arse with it! Oh and say you're from Essex or Sussex or one of those.

My sister always raves excitedly about guys who dressed up at parties like this. According to her all the girls love it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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StrivetoThrive

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You should dress up like a thug. Wear a bandana, chain, beater, bubble vest, boots, wicked big sweatpants and pull one leg up. First of all its really comfortable, and its pretty funny. I did it for a party one time and i was rockin out with my cack out later. And I'm a 5'9 165 lb white guy and pulled this off. Do it.
 

felony

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Hey guys thanks for the ideas.

I've decided to go as A.powers. Do a search in the forums [costume party, halloween, etc] to read up why this outfit is gonna rock for me.

I've got the whole outfit...Ill let u know how it goes.

Shall we shag now or shag later?

f.
 

Baruch

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Originally posted by felony
Hey guys thanks for the ideas.

I've decided to go as A.powers. Do a search in the forums [costume party, halloween, etc] to read up why this outfit is gonna rock for me.

I've got the whole outfit...Ill let u know how it goes.

Shall we shag now or shag later?

f.
i was thinkin about doing it as well, but i just dont have the accent for it.
 
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