“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.

so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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orbion2013 said:
so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
I did the same thing with mine. But what is done is done. Too late now to change it, we can only learn from it and go forward.definitely one of the harder lessons in life to have learned. My mind has never been so confused and I have never been mind fvcked like this.
 

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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
sage advice for whoever you're seeing. bpd or not.
 
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