"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
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so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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orbion2013 said:
so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
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I did the same thing with mine. But what is done is done. Too late now to change it, we can only learn from it and go forward.definitely one of the harder lessons in life to have learned. My mind has never been so confused and I have never been mind fvcked like this.
 
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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
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sage advice for whoever you're seeing. bpd or not.
 
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