"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
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so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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orbion2013 said:
so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
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I did the same thing with mine. But what is done is done. Too late now to change it, we can only learn from it and go forward.definitely one of the harder lessons in life to have learned. My mind has never been so confused and I have never been mind fvcked like this.
 
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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
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sage advice for whoever you're seeing. bpd or not.
 
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