Correcting Bdp, cluster b, Passive Aggressive Behaviour?

[orbion2013]

You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.

so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR

 

[JWT]

so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR

I did the same thing with mine. But what is done is done. Too late now to change it, we can only learn from it and go forward.definitely one of the harder lessons in life to have learned. My mind has never been so confused and I have never been mind fvcked like this.

 

[user name]

You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.

sage advice for whoever you're seeing. bpd or not.