"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Correcting Bdp, cluster b, Passive Aggressive Behaviour?

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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
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so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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orbion2013 said:
so damn true!

this is where i went wrong... for the first year, i was spinning plates & just f@cking her... i knew from day one she was not on the level... the red flags was there very early on.

it all went wrong when it developed into a relationship... should never had got to that stage... she was THE WRONG STUFF for LTR
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I did the same thing with mine. But what is done is done. Too late now to change it, we can only learn from it and go forward.definitely one of the harder lessons in life to have learned. My mind has never been so confused and I have never been mind fvcked like this.
 
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papawapa said:
You cant control them but you can control yourself. Recognize them for what they are. Identify them early. Dont get attached or emotionally invested. Keep spinning plates. Dont put up with their ****. Dont be afraid to make them leave or to walk away. Enjoy the seks.
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sage advice for whoever you're seeing. bpd or not.
 
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