"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Correct USE of tonality

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Ok, im confused as to the use of your tone.
Im in the process of sorting through my collection of SS material, but this doesnt seem to be covered well.

I see patterns written like this:

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."

Now, am i right in assumeing that you are to adjust your tone for the section in capitals? or should there be some other form of emphasis placed on those words and the entire "pattern" performed in correct tonality? Such as delivery speed, etc?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Awkward

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Delivery speeds can either be performed at 60% or doing short bursts with normal speed and using pauses...

"I mean(pause)can you imagine(pause)that connection..."

You should try to feel that feeling of connection yourself, and pronounce the word "Imagine" in a bit dreamy mysterious way. Like you are imagining yourself... and at the word connection should end with a downward pitch... You can also do that with imagine. Otherwise it will just be a statement (statements = useless)

Statement

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."
Tonality-----------------------------------

Command: (my tonality)

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."
Tonality--´-------.---¨--._...----^------....____

Hope it helped

--- Awkward

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Listen to Ross Jeffries doing the patterns and you will understand. In a few seconds (no joke) it will hit you what he means by tonality.
 

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Chance...
Are u getting paid to do advertisements? I don't think that tip will help him especially much. Maybe he hasn't got the Home study course. Just the free bok available att ross homepage.

--- Awkward
 

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Originally posted by Awkward:
Chance...
Are u getting paid to do advertisements? I don't think that tip will help him especially much. Maybe he hasn't got the Home study course. Just the free bok available att ross homepage.

--- Awkward
No, I am not getting paid to do adverts.
If you have been around this board as long as I have, you would know that.

F*ck, he can download some from Bearshare, Kazaa, or Imesh for all I care, so that he can see what I am saying about tonality.
You absolutely CANNOT get what is he means by tonality from anyone describing it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know, I know. Just felt like irritating you a little.

I'm the king you know chance, just accept that
I can describe anything, even the feeling of annoyment you are not feeling right now, like when people don't have a fukked up attitude.

--- Awkard
 

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Yeah, ive downloaded a few patterns, some tone shift i can pick up on... but he seems to have slowed them down a little. I am slowly getting it, so i proceed a long with crap then drop my tone when i get to a command. Im just getting used to the concious use of my tone, its difficult to do it without sounding too theatrical.
 

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bump

bump, i have seeing this forum dying :\
 
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