"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Correct USE of tonality

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Ok, im confused as to the use of your tone.
Im in the process of sorting through my collection of SS material, but this doesnt seem to be covered well.

I see patterns written like this:

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."

Now, am i right in assumeing that you are to adjust your tone for the section in capitals? or should there be some other form of emphasis placed on those words and the entire "pattern" performed in correct tonality? Such as delivery speed, etc?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Delivery speeds can either be performed at 60% or doing short bursts with normal speed and using pauses...

"I mean(pause)can you imagine(pause)that connection..."

You should try to feel that feeling of connection yourself, and pronounce the word "Imagine" in a bit dreamy mysterious way. Like you are imagining yourself... and at the word connection should end with a downward pitch... You can also do that with imagine. Otherwise it will just be a statement (statements = useless)

Statement

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."
Tonality-----------------------------------

Command: (my tonality)

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."
Tonality--´-------.---¨--._...----^------....____

Hope it helped

--- Awkward

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Listen to Ross Jeffries doing the patterns and you will understand. In a few seconds (no joke) it will hit you what he means by tonality.
 

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Chance...
Are u getting paid to do advertisements? I don't think that tip will help him especially much. Maybe he hasn't got the Home study course. Just the free bok available att ross homepage.

--- Awkward
 

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Originally posted by Awkward:
Chance...
Are u getting paid to do advertisements? I don't think that tip will help him especially much. Maybe he hasn't got the Home study course. Just the free bok available att ross homepage.

--- Awkward
No, I am not getting paid to do adverts.
If you have been around this board as long as I have, you would know that.

F*ck, he can download some from Bearshare, Kazaa, or Imesh for all I care, so that he can see what I am saying about tonality.
You absolutely CANNOT get what is he means by tonality from anyone describing it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I know, I know. Just felt like irritating you a little.

I'm the king you know chance, just accept that
I can describe anything, even the feeling of annoyment you are not feeling right now, like when people don't have a fukked up attitude.

--- Awkard
 

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Yeah, ive downloaded a few patterns, some tone shift i can pick up on... but he seems to have slowed them down a little. I am slowly getting it, so i proceed a long with crap then drop my tone when i get to a command. Im just getting used to the concious use of my tone, its difficult to do it without sounding too theatrical.
 

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bump

bump, i have seeing this forum dying :\
 
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