"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Correct USE of tonality

Tengu

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Ok, im confused as to the use of your tone.
Im in the process of sorting through my collection of SS material, but this doesnt seem to be covered well.

I see patterns written like this:

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."

Now, am i right in assumeing that you are to adjust your tone for the section in capitals? or should there be some other form of emphasis placed on those words and the entire "pattern" performed in correct tonality? Such as delivery speed, etc?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Awkward

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Delivery speeds can either be performed at 60% or doing short bursts with normal speed and using pauses...

"I mean(pause)can you imagine(pause)that connection..."

You should try to feel that feeling of connection yourself, and pronounce the word "Imagine" in a bit dreamy mysterious way. Like you are imagining yourself... and at the word connection should end with a downward pitch... You can also do that with imagine. Otherwise it will just be a statement (statements = useless)

Statement

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."
Tonality-----------------------------------

Command: (my tonality)

"i mean, can you IMAGINE THAT CONNECTION...."
Tonality--´-------.---¨--._...----^------....____

Hope it helped

--- Awkward

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Listen to Ross Jeffries doing the patterns and you will understand. In a few seconds (no joke) it will hit you what he means by tonality.
 

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Chance...
Are u getting paid to do advertisements? I don't think that tip will help him especially much. Maybe he hasn't got the Home study course. Just the free bok available att ross homepage.

--- Awkward
 

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Originally posted by Awkward:
Chance...
Are u getting paid to do advertisements? I don't think that tip will help him especially much. Maybe he hasn't got the Home study course. Just the free bok available att ross homepage.

--- Awkward
No, I am not getting paid to do adverts.
If you have been around this board as long as I have, you would know that.

F*ck, he can download some from Bearshare, Kazaa, or Imesh for all I care, so that he can see what I am saying about tonality.
You absolutely CANNOT get what is he means by tonality from anyone describing it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Awkward

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I know, I know. Just felt like irritating you a little.

I'm the king you know chance, just accept that
I can describe anything, even the feeling of annoyment you are not feeling right now, like when people don't have a fukked up attitude.

--- Awkard
 

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Yeah, ive downloaded a few patterns, some tone shift i can pick up on... but he seems to have slowed them down a little. I am slowly getting it, so i proceed a long with crap then drop my tone when i get to a command. Im just getting used to the concious use of my tone, its difficult to do it without sounding too theatrical.
 

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bump

bump, i have seeing this forum dying :\
 
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