"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Corey Wayne: Dominant Behavior Gets You Laid
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dominant behavior also gets you free sh!t...my pickup was in the shop recently,the manager of the shop told me it would be fixed in two days...when I went back in two days to pick up my truck it was not ready...The manager said he had not had a chance to fix it yet,I told him that it better be ready THAT DAY or I was going to call corporate on his azz..and I said it loud in the shop in an aggressive manner..he threatened to call the cops on me..I told him to go right ahead...then he backed down...I think he pissed his pants ....anyway it was fixed for free I called corporate anyway and got 1000 dollars of work done on my truck for free AND a free AC.
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I pissed my pants, reading this comment.So true though. Worth bearing in mind that >90% of the population are fckn sheep ambling around, just begging to be directed or led by someone. Anyone.
I think the most helpful part of the video is 5:00 - 7:30 when he talks about how you shouldn't think about women all the time and should be more focused on you personal success. Let's face it, the true DJs don't pursue women. Women pursue them.
So true though. Worth bearing in mind that >90% of the population are fckn sheep ambling around, just begging to be directed or led by someone. Anyone.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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A dominant behaviour unless forced is the natural conseguence of a powerful man who has his sh1t togheter, this is why its attractive, its because is a sign of high status.
I believe that we should work on ourself to be the person that is used to such things instead of faking it, cause fakes are hard to be done perfectly.
wifehunter
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Ever had a girl buy you flowers? I have...Three times, with three different girls. Also, one girl bought me food. I must be a sexy b!tch!
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In the past 7 months I've been dating my gf, she has:Ever had a girl buy you flowers? I have...Three times, with three different girls. Also, one girl bought me food. I must be a sexy b!tch!
1. Brought me flowers
2. Random stuff
3. Birthday Card, brought me out to dinner
4. Brought goodies from her vacation
5. Brought stuff over when I was sick
6. Drove me around, spent at least $100 bucks on a date with me, 80% of which she paid.