Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dominant behavior also gets you free sh!t...my pickup was in the shop recently,the manager of the shop told me it would be fixed in two days...when I went back in two days to pick up my truck it was not ready...The manager said he had not had a chance to fix it yet,I told him that it better be ready THAT DAY or I was going to call corporate on his azz..and I said it loud in the shop in an aggressive manner..he threatened to call the cops on me..I told him to go right ahead...then he backed down...I think he pissed his pants ....anyway it was fixed for free I called corporate anyway and got 1000 dollars of work done on my truck for free AND a free AC.
I think he pissed his pants
I think the most helpful part of the video is 5:00 - 7:30 when he talks about how you shouldn't think about women all the time and should be more focused on you personal success. Let's face it, the true DJs don't pursue women. Women pursue them.I pissed my pants, reading this comment.
So true though. Worth bearing in mind that >90% of the population are fckn sheep ambling around, just begging to be directed or led by someone. Anyone.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ever had a girl buy you flowers? I have...Three times, with three different girls. Also, one girl bought me food. I must be a sexy b!tch!I think the most helpful part of the video is 5:00 - 7:30 when he talks about how you shouldn't think about women all the time and should be more focused on you personal success. Let's face it, the true DJs don't pursue women. Women pursue them.
In the past 7 months I've been dating my gf, she has:Ever had a girl buy you flowers? I have...Three times, with three different girls. Also, one girl bought me food. I must be a sexy b!tch!![]()