Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dominant behavior also gets you free sh!t...my pickup was in the shop recently,the manager of the shop told me it would be fixed in two days...when I went back in two days to pick up my truck it was not ready...The manager said he had not had a chance to fix it yet,I told him that it better be ready THAT DAY or I was going to call corporate on his azz..and I said it loud in the shop in an aggressive manner..he threatened to call the cops on me..I told him to go right ahead...then he backed down...I think he pissed his pants ....anyway it was fixed for free I called corporate anyway and got 1000 dollars of work done on my truck for free AND a free AC.
I think he pissed his pants
I think the most helpful part of the video is 5:00 - 7:30 when he talks about how you shouldn't think about women all the time and should be more focused on you personal success. Let's face it, the true DJs don't pursue women. Women pursue them.I pissed my pants, reading this comment.
So true though. Worth bearing in mind that >90% of the population are fckn sheep ambling around, just begging to be directed or led by someone. Anyone.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ever had a girl buy you flowers? I have...Three times, with three different girls. Also, one girl bought me food. I must be a sexy b!tch!I think the most helpful part of the video is 5:00 - 7:30 when he talks about how you shouldn't think about women all the time and should be more focused on you personal success. Let's face it, the true DJs don't pursue women. Women pursue them.
In the past 7 months I've been dating my gf, she has:Ever had a girl buy you flowers? I have...Three times, with three different girls. Also, one girl bought me food. I must be a sexy b!tch!![]()