"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wildchild

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Does working your core muscles push out your abs to make them apear bigger? Also to a boxer do you think it would help them have more power in the punches...thanks for your advice
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alpine

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The core is the link between what you hit with and what makes it powerful, ie your hips and good grounding. Therefore it is potentially the weak link in the chain.

So it's not so stupid to squat for harder punching combined with necesarry bag work and sparring. The squat build hip power and stablising muscles that make up the core (this includes lower back, not just abs).

Turkish get ups with weight are proably the best allround core developer. Remember some of the best fighters in the world have very strong cores, however many of them have a total absence of the washboard effect.
 

wildchild

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Is your core your abs, lower back, muscles inside between ur ab and back and also your ass muscles? Also alpine my thai boxing instructor has trained in wing chun Im gonna get him to show me a few things. How you getting on with it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are muscles inside the hips too that are responible for your core movements.
 
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